Pride & Promises
Christian Support & Biblical Guidance for Parents of LGBTQ+ Children
Faith-based resources, biblical wisdom, and practical tools to help Christian parents navigate when their child comes out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. Love your LGBTQ+ child well while keeping your faith strong.
free download - conversation starters
When your child comes out as LGBTQ+, everything changes.
You want to honor God.
You want to love your LGBTQ+ child well.
You're afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing.
Dear Parent,
You're not alone. You don't have to figure it out all by yourself.
We'll help.
Pride & Promises helps Christian parents navigate the tender intersection of faith, family, and LGBTQ+ identity — with biblical truth, compassion, and practical guidance after your child comes out.
You'll find tools, resources, coaching, and biblical wisdom to help you walk this journey with grace as a Christian parent of a gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender child.
Talk with your child - GET FREE CONVERSATION STARTERS
Who I help
I support Christian parents, grandparents, pastors, and caregivers who want to honor God while walking alongside their gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender child with grace, wisdom, and emotional safety. Whether you're overwhelmed, grieving, hopeful, confused, or deeply committed to your LGBTQ+ child after they come out, you're not alone. There's a way to walk this road well without sacrificing love or biblical truth.
Start Here:
1. ➜ Get the Conversation Starters
Engage with your child with confidence after they come out
2. ➜ Work through the 31-day Workbook
Work Through the 31-Day Faith-Based Workbook for Christian Parents to gain biblical guidance and deeper understanding
3. ➜ Join Love Unlimited & Community Group
Get support and gain confidence from other Christian parents of LGBTQ+ children
Gain a deeper connection and a broadened perspective for:
your child - your faith - Scripture - yourself.
Hold Onto Christian Faith
While You Hold Onto Your LGBTQ+ Child
Start with Step 1 - the free guide
Record Your Thoughts
31-Day Workbook for Christian Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids
A 78-page workbook designed to:
- help you navigate your thoughts and feelings
- answer thought-provoking questions with biblical truth, with journaling space to record your thoughts and prayers
- walk your journey in confidence, with faith and love intact
- dive deep into understanding the heart of your child from a biblical perspective
- learn that it IS possible to hold onto your faith while you hold onto your child.
- pray though each day so that every day, your're assured that the Lord sees you
Self-Paced Video series
Online Course &
Group Coaching for Christian Parents of LGBGQ+ Kids
Transform your days ahead with:
- practical step-by-step guidance to understand the journey when your child comes out
- a concentrated look at topics in 29 sessions to help you understand topics you may not have previously considered
- delve into important topics, including your child's perspective, parental emotions, the significance of parental support, navigating faith, considering the future, and all the things in between
- group meetings twice monthly via Zoom, with parents, pastors & encouragers who understand the journey of LGBTQ+ parents
One-to-One Help
Online Course PLUS One-to-One Christian Parent Coaching
Navigating the complex intersection of faith and family can feel like you're carrying grace and truth in trembling hands.
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Personalized, faith-based guidance to help you navigate Christian faith & family with clarity and compassion.
- A safe, confidential space to process fear, grief, emotions and overwhelm, without judgment.
- Practical next steps to strengthen your relationship with your child, rebuild trust, and walk with grace, wisdom, and emotional steadiness
- Encouragement to journey well beside your LGBTQ+ child
Can I invite you to breathe?
Pause a moment and take a breath.
God isn’t surprised by your child’s LGBTQ+ revelation.
He can handle the questions:
✓ Is God mad at me?
✓ Why my family?
✓ What will my church say?
✓ Who should (or shouldn't) I tell? *Read the Blog About Disclosure
✓ Is my child LGBTQ+ child going to hell?
✓ What do I say to my LGBTQ+ child after they come out?
✓ Does God love my LGBTQ+ child?
✓ Where do I turn?
Fear not, you are not alone.
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WONDERING WHAT TO SAY TO YOUR LGBTQ+ CHILD?
S T A R T H E R E :
FREE 31 Conversation Starters for Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids
Digital Download
- Ask thoughtfully crafted questions
- Engage with and understand your LGBTQ+ child’s perspective
- Be encouraged by Scripture
- Explore what it’s like to walk in your child’s shoes before and after coming out
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Hi. I'm Kim
(and that's my grand dog, Theo)
I love Jesus. I love my son, and I’m walking this path as a Christian parent of an LGBTQ+ child with my family. Together, we can walk this road with both truth and tenderness.
- We’ve navigated imperfectly.
- We’ve done some things well.
- We’ve had joys and pains, misunderstandings and growth.
We have hurts. Our children do too.
Everyone’s carrying some collateral damage.
Our family has learned that every LGBTQ+ child carries hidden wounds — and every parent carries fear they rarely say out loud. I’m here to help Christian parents navigate those fears with biblical wisdom, compassion, and truth.
If you feel unsure, overwhelmed, protective, heartbroken, deeply confused, or totally alone… you’re in the right place.
I know what it feels like to love your LGBTQ+ child fiercely while trying to hold onto your faith with both hands.
Let's start with a conversation.
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I'm glad you're here.
I wish I could sit across from you with a warm cup of coffee and look you in the eyes to say: You’re not a bad parent. God isn’t disappointed in you. And you’re not alone in your LGBTQ+ journey.
We may never fully grasp the courage it took for our LGBTQ+ children to reveal their most vulnerable part of their lives — but we can learn to respond with faith, emotional resilience, and Christlike love.
The Lord will stretch us and teach us to walk this journey with grace. (Spoiler alert, we need a boatload of the stuff.)
If you’re afraid of “doing it wrong,” questioning your reactions, or worried about honoring God while honoring your child—you’re not failing. You’re growing.
GET 31 CONVERSATION STARTERSOur mission
At Pride and Promises, we know that every Christian family’s journey is unique and precious.
Our mission is simple:
To provide Christ-centered, biblical resources, biblical reassurance, and practical guidance for Christian parents who want to hold onto their faith while they hold onto their gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender child.
Because your child’s story matters.
Your faith matters.
And Jesus has not stepped out of your family’s story.
Are you ready to walk the journey well?
Thank you
for inviting us to be part of your journey.
Together, we can create a world where
every LGBTQ+ child feels loved,
every family is valued,
and every believer loves like Jesus does.
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Your Support Means the World
Hey there, amazing human,
Would you like to make a donation to
Pride & Promises?
Every contribution means we can keep doing the work that matters. Your gift will help another parent who cannot afford the help they need. We also provide practical needs to LGBTQ+ individuals who might not have anyone else in their corner. No child should be homeless or hungry.
Your generosity means we can:
✓ Continue our support groups for parents learning to love unconditionally
✓ Provide resources for LGBTQ+ families navigating complex circumstances
✓ Offer direct support to LGBTQ+ people in under-resourced communities who need a helping hand
These aren't just programs. These are lives. Real humans, who need to know they are seen, valued, and loved, no matter what.
Pride & Promises is not a 501(c)3 organization; therefore, donations are not tax deductible.
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