It's Christmas. . .
Your child just came out as LGBTQ+.
As a Christian parent,
you feel lost.
When a child discloses an LGBTQ+ identity, it can feel like the ground shifts beneath your feet, and the holidays can feel complicated.
You love your child more than they’ll ever know—but your heart may feel overwhelmed in this moment, and you don't know what to pray for.
You may be wondering:
How do I pray when I'm overwhelmed?
How do I respond to my child?
What do I pray for when the words don't come?
Send me the Prayer Guide
Friend, you are not alone.
5 Prayers After Your Child Comes Out is a FREE resource, written for the exact moment you’re living in—when emotions are high, thoughts are swirling, and you’re trying to find God in all of it. How does a Christian parent respond to an LGBTQ+ disclosure?
We pray.
Each day of prayer includes:
✓ A Scripture to anchor your heart
✓ A guided prayer to help you breathe and find peace
✓ Reflection questions to guide your thoughts
✓ Journaling prompts to process your feelings
✓ A simple action step to help you love your child well today
When Parents Pray...
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We slow down to hear God’s voice over our fears
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Our emotions settle
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We release the pressure to have all the answers
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Our hearts soften toward our child
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We remember that God is at work
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We invite the Holy Spirit to calm fear and confusion
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We shift from panic to presence
We gain...
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A steadier heart in moments that feel overwhelming
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Clarity about what matters in conversations with our child
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Renewed confidence that God is guiding every step
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Compassion that replaces judgment & fear
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Peace that holds us when circumstances feel uncertain
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Hope for our relationship and for our family
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Strength to love our child with wisdom, and grace
The greatest gift we can give our LGBTQ+ child is our love, our presence and their security, and a heart that's quietly prayerful.
God is not surprised by this moment. He sees you. He sees your child. He will catch every prayer, every confused thought, and every fear. Let's do today, today. Tomorrow is a new day with new mercies. We're here for you.
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